The Thing He Desires Most From You Is Respect-

1. The thing he desires most from you is respect -
   • Respect is the fuel that drives his engine. He wants to be respected by his peers and people in general, but respect from you is most important.
   • A man desires respect the same way women desire love
   • This is so vitally important to men because this is how God created men!
   • This is why men are so often driven to succeed. (Money, success in business, knowledge/education, sports, winning at video games) All of these are a means to gain respect.
   • He will gravitate toward the things that he believes give him the best chance of gaining more respect.
     • (This is why so many young men gravitate toward participating in gangs. They see it as the best way to gain respect. )
   • He will tend to believe that winning is the best way to gain respect. If he feels that he is winning with you, he will gravitate toward you and try to win more.
   • If he feels like he isn't winning with you and comes to believe that he can't win with you, he will turn his attention toward something else...and perhaps, toward someone else.
   • ONE FINAL THING: It's important for a woman to know that she is not the deciding factor in his happiness! Every man is accountable before God for his own attitudes, motives & actions. If he says, "Look what you made me do!" he is running from that accountability and not owning his own stuff. 
   • We will be sharing a Bonus Episode after Episode 10 that deals with what to do when things go wrong- How to deal with an angry/abusive relationship! You don't want to miss that Bonus Episode.